Clutter and Your Relationships!.


Posted by | Posted in Feng Shui and your Home | Posted on 29-08-2015

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Not too long ago, I had a consultation with a client who called me in to help her with a relationship she had with her boyfriend. They both felt “stuck” and were fighting all the time. When I got to the front door and rang the bell, I heard my client yell out, “Oh, just a minute…I want to clear the doorway.” I had a bad feeling!
As I entered the home, or rather “climbed” into the home over boxes, laundry and kitty litter, I could only wonder at what she had cleared out. My initial response was to tell her immediately that I could not work with her feng shui because of her enormous amount of clutter, particularly in her entry way. Feng Shui is about creating good energy in your space to help you achieve a healthier more prosperous life. In order to do that, the energy or “chi” has to be able to move freely throughout your home (or business spaces). The good energy should enter your spaces without having to plow through clutter. It will have no place to go but stagnate right where it is!
She had read that feng shui was able to help create a wonderful peaceful and communicative bedroom, especially with sparing partners. She begged me to look at her bedroom. She requested that I give her immediate “remedies” to help cure her relationship. I tried not to faint when I entered her bedroom.. She had clutter in every area of the room that went up the walls to her ceilings!
After explaining to her that there was no way I could possibly help her until she had a dramatic clutter clearing event, I put my arms around her and assured her that I would help her. I put her in contact with a wonderful professional organizer. She made the appointment and they both worked on transforming her home. My client then called me back. It was now time for Feng Shui!  I didn’t recognize her home!  It was simply remarkable! I looked at her and she was beaming. She looked healthier, rosy cheeks and she had lost weight. She and her boyfriend were starting to get along better, but it was now time to do her feng shui. I gave her some remedies to help with what had already started and the result was, I was just invited to their wedding in October!. They are happier than they have ever been, and I am so happy for them. .

Bottom line, clutter can keep you stagnant and stuck in so MANY areas of your life. Clear the clutter and feel what a difference it makes. You will feel joyous!

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Are You A Hoarder??


Posted by | Posted in Feng Shui and your Home | Posted on 24-03-2011

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OK, so you admit that you have more clutter than is comfortable for you  and you want to do something about it. Good for you! So what’s this thing about being a hoarder??

Yipes, “I’m not a hoarder,” you say. “That’s for other people…I know where everything is and I’m OK. I just need to clean house.”

The line between having clutter and hoarding can become amazingly slim. That’s because hoarders trick themselves into thinking that they really don’t have a lot of excess, and what’s worse,  they remain emotionally attached to their “stuff.”

Hoarders feel like they’re cutting off an arm when asked to clear away their junk. It’s  hugely painful.

That being said, most people are not hoarders, but most people do carry more clutter in their lives than is necessary.

The word Clutter is known to have originated somewhere in the 1400’s and means to clot, store in heaps, and litter! 

As I’ve said many times before, clutter is a major source of concern in having good Feng Shui because clutter creates a major source of stagnation.

So get out the garbage bags, have a garage sale, hire a professional organizer and get going! You can’t believe how good you will feel!

Elaine Giftos Wright

Certified Feng Shui Master, practicing in Los Angeles California

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