Wedding Feng Shui!


Posted by | Posted in Feng Shui for Relationships | Posted on 15-06-2011

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It’s the season for WEDDINGS and I thought I’d give you a few fun feng shui tips for all of you brides, or brides to be!

You are getting married and you want it to be the happiest day of your life! The gown is bought, the wedding planner is on board, the food and cake tasting is scheduled and your wedding party has all agreed to “serve” you on your special day. Your groom to be is enjoying his last days of bachelorhood and looking forward to being a husband. All is well!

Well, let’s look at this special day. All of you brides want the most beautiful, harmonious, blissful day for you and your groom and you both deserve it!  Nothing is more disappointing and exhausting than to have problems or “issues” on your wedding day!

So let’s talk about how feng shui can add to the serenity and beauty of this event. Your wedding can be made as perfect as possible by setting the tone with feng shui!

There are so MANY ways that feng shui can help to produce a beautiful serene wedding and I would like to touch on a few.

Your GOWN:

In Western tradition, the bride wears white. For good luck, the bride can wear a few red or crimson garments under her wedding gown. RED is the color of YANG energy and will help with your own energy during the long day. Even more fun, the color red ignites passion. (Your groom will be so surprised and pleased on your wedding night)!

Wedding Reception:

It’s important that whatever room your choose for your reception does NOT have heavy beams across the ceiling! This can harm the energy of your entire wedding party and guests! Also, choose round tables for guests. Round is the symbol of unity in feng shui and particularly good for romantic relationships. Guests feel more comfortable and social. You can use gold or yellow napkins for extra good luck.


Mirrors are often referred to as “the aspirin of feng shui.” They solve many problems and create excellent energy when used correctly. To create even more abundance of LOVE in your marriage, try to include at least one mirror at your wedding. If you can manage to have a mirror positioned to reflect you and your groom during the ceremony itself or when you cut the cake or dance your first dance…you are well on your way to a life time of true LOVE!

Your Flowers:

Have your florist arrange your table flowers to include at least one wooden branch in each arrangement. Branches are typically made of WOOD and symbolize the EARTH element and represent UNITY!

As I have said, there is so much that feng shui can do to help with a successful wedding and prepare you for the future. I have personally worked with many brides either alone or with their wedding planners to help make their spectacular event the very best it could possible be!

The results have been awesome!

For more information on Feng Shui and what it can do for you, please visit my website: and don’t forget to sign up for my FREE E Book, “How To Increase Your Finances With Feng Shui”

Blessings to All,

Elaine….Contact Elaine at:

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How To Attract Your Mate


Posted by | Posted in Feng Shui for Relationships | Posted on 08-02-2011

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How to Attract Your Mate

By Tami Smight and Elaine Giftos Wright

I often design for single clients who are looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right.  When the subject of the master bedroom is at hand, I offer some ancient wisdom I have learned from my friend and colleague, Elaine Giftos Wright, Feng Shui master. (The Wright Way of Feng Shui,

First of all the wall color is vitally important for attracting your mate.  “When you want to attract your mate, paint the room a shade of peach”, Elaine advises.  “And when you have your mate, immediately remove the peach from the room”, cautions Elaine.

What color does Elaine suggest you use to replace the peach color?  “Shades of pink, rose, mauve, even red will be ideal once you have your mate” offers Elaine.  As a designer, I am thrilled that Elaine is giving us lots of options for the pink/rose/red shades, based on her years of experience as a Feng Shui Master! 

Now Elaine has studied the ancient art of Feng Shui for years and has traveled to China to perfect her skills.  She has enriched the lives of so many individuals and families with her Feng Shui remedies, so when Elaine speaks on the subject, I listen!  This remedy works for both men and women.  Really, for the cost of a can of paint, what have you got to loose?

I would like to compliment Elaine’s advice with a bit of my own.  Because there are many shades of peach paint, I want to give you some interior design guidance to compliment Elaine’s remedy.

I offer you three colors of peach to consider.

  • Benjamin Moore “Vivid Peach” #025 – this warm shade will compliment both women and men alike.  Not too feminine, and not too pink.  Consider this for a bedroom that gets little natural light.


  • Benjamin Moore: Georgia Peach #031; A hint of pink gives this shade a slightly feminine feel, warm brown undertones in this paint color will be a nice background to wood furniture and accessories.


  • Dunn Edwards Rustique DE5149: Terra cotta undertones make this peach acceptable for a man or a woman’s bedroom. For a room with abundant natural light, this color will stay warm, and keep the room calm feeling all day.


Remember, once you get the love of your life, get that paintbrush out and paint the shades of pink or rose or red.  What color to pick after that?  Well, you should call Elaine and Tami to evaluate what works best!

Happy Hunting!

If you need professional help manifesting your authentic style in your home, call Tami Smight Interiors 661 430-0127.

You can contact Elaine at:

661 799-0607

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Feng Shui And Romance!


Posted by | Posted in Feng Shui for Relationships | Posted on 09-01-2011

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Are you looking for a new romance? Well, romance is in the air if you properly prepare!

Many single individuals often ask me how to draw in a new romantic partner using Feng Shui. Of course I tell them that feng shui is not a magic bullet to magically produce the love of your life  BUT, feng shui can certainly assist in bringing good energy to your home and perhaps drawing in that perfect mate.

When you create a bedroom that signals the universe that you are ready to share your life, you start the flow of energy in the right direction.

Foe instance, many single people set up their bedrooms with only themselves in mind. Of course  that would be logical since they are the only ones inhabiting the bedroom.

To signal the universe that you wish to share your space, you must begin by using “the power of two.”

Here are a few examples.

Even though you are the only one using the bed and you have your favorite side of the bed with an end table and lamp (why have two you ask)! This says clearly that you want to be alone!

You will want to set your bedroom up for two, so start by having another end table and lamp on the other side of the bed. Voila! It already is prepared for that special someone to share your space! 

Color can create romance. Have a splash of Red, or Fuchsia in your bedroom. These colors create passion. Also, pink attracts Romance.  (Hanging a beautiful jeweled pink crystal) over your bed adds the color of love and romance.

Stay away from bright and busy patterns in the bedroom. Bright active colors are best in other rooms.

If you have items from past relationships, they MUST be extracted from the bedroom. You will not be able to bring in the new if you don’t release the past.

If possible, it’s best to buy a new bed after a relationship is over. At the very least, you should use new linens!

If you are a woman, please make sure that your bedroom isn’t all soft and fluffy. If it’s too sweet and frilly, a man won’t feel comfortable there.

DO NOT SLEEP UNDER A BEAM! This is feng shui 101! A beam will oppress your love life and also your health, so move the bed or use feng shui remedies to offset the problem.

Don’t flush away romance by having your bed too close to a bathroom. Always shut the door and keep the toilet seat down after you go to bed.

And of course, get rid of clutter in the bedroom! When you clear the clutter from your bedroom, you open up the room to new energy and a new love. If there is too much of your ‘stuff’ in your bedroom, you signal that there is no space left for anyone who may wish to share your life and/or bedroom!

De-clutter now!

Somewhere in your bedroom, hang a picture of a loving couple, never a single person. The images on your bedroom wall should be soft and loving, never an image that depicts loneliness, violence or sadness. (Be careful what you see on your walls. It reflects your life)!

To all of you looking for love, I wish you many blessings and the best of success!



Elaine Giftos Wright is a certified Feng Shui consultant, instructor, speaker and author. Contact her at:

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